Silly Selfies

People got all huffy when they added 'selfie' to the dictionary. Not sure why. It's a word that describes an action. And let's be honest, you've taken a selfie in your lifetime. I've taken more than my share......a large portion of them with a camera that requires film.......

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Let's Try Something Different

Why do we freak out about the ten commandments being in school?  How about tacking this one up:

1 Corinthians 13:13 AMP
And so faith, hope, love abide [faith–conviction and belief respecting man's relation to God and divine things; hope–joyful and confident expectation of eternal salvation; love–true affection for God and man, growing out of God's love for and in us], these three; but the greatest of these is love.

Apparently law alone hasn't worked for us thus far. I get that we need rules. Everybody gets that. We know already. We're taught from birth to obey. But no one wants to obey a command from someone they think hates them or at best is indifferent towards them.

John 14:15 ESV
“If you love me, you will keep my commandments."

We keep His commandments BECAUSE we love Him. I could go be with another man.......BUT I DONT WANT TO! WHY? Because I love my husband. See where I'm going with this?

Where Does the Boycotting Stop?

Here's a list, via Wikipedia, for everyone boycotting Starbucks, if you boycott one why not boycott them all? In such a case, you're going to have to grow your own food, sew most of your clothes, bank at home, never fly, delete your FB, throw away all your Disney movies, quit watching sports or any TV for that matter, get rid of your mobile phone carrier, chop down your own wood to make home improvements, etc....

But before you take the time to read said list, keep this in mind:

~For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved. (John 3:17 NKJV)

See also: List of supporters of same-sex marriage in the United States
Organizations that support same-sex marriage in the United States are numerous.
Contents [hide]
1 Corporations
2 Labor Unions
3 Professional Associations
3.1 Non-profit advocacy
4 Religion
5 See also
6 References
[edit]Corporations

The following corporations have donated money, lent support to campaigns and court cases, or have in general come out in support of organizations that seek to protect or fight for same-sex marriage rights. Additionally, seventy companies, law firms, and trade organizations filed an amicus curiae brief in support of Gill v. Office of Personnel Management,[1] and over two hundred filed amicus curiae briefs in support of Windsor v. United States,[2] calling the Defense of Marriage Act unconstitutional.
Abercrombie & Fitch[2]
Adobe Systems[3]
Aetna[4]
Akamai Technologies[4]
Alcoa[4]
Allstate Insurance[5]
Amazon.com[5]
American Apparel[6]
American Airlines[5]
Apple[7]
Applebee's[5]
Barnes & Noble[4]
Ben & Jerry's[3]
Best Buy[5]
Geek Squad
Boeing[8]
Cablevision[4]
Cisco Systems[4]
Clorox[5]
The Coca-Cola Company[5]
Concur Technologies[9]
Costco[5]
Delta Airlines[5]
Dropbox[4]
eBay[3]
Electronic Arts[10]
EMC Corporation[11]
Expedia[12]
Facebook[2]
Ford[13]
Gap[5]
Banana Republic, Old Navy, Piperlime
General Mills[5]
General Motors[5]
Goldman Sachs[3]
Google[7]
Motorola Mobility, Youtube, Zagat
Groupon[14]
Hewlett-Packard[4]
Hilton Worldwide[5]
The Home Depot[13]
Houghton Mifflin[4]
IBM[5]
Intel[2]
Intuit[3]
J.C. Penney[5]
The Jim Henson Company[4]
Kraft Foods[5]
Levi's[6]
LinkedIn[4]
Marriott Hotels[5]
Marsh & McLennan Companies[2]
McDonald's[5]
The McGraw-Hill Companies[4]
Standard & Poors, J.D. Power & Associates, McGraw-Hill Education
Microsoft[8]
Morgan Stanley[2]
Nationwide Insurance[5]
NCR Corporation [2]
Nike[9]
Nordstrom[15]
Olive Garden[5]
Office Depot[5]
Oracle[2]
Orbitz[14]
Oreo[5]
Panasonic[2]
PepsiCo[5]
PG&E[16]
Procter and Gamble[5]
Qualcomm[17]
RealNetworks, Inc.[8]
Red Lobster[5]
REI[18]
Rite Aid[5]
Salesforce.com[4]
Sears[5]
Land's End
Southwest Airlines[5]
Sun Life Financial[2]
Starbucks[8]
State Farm Insurance[5]
Target[5]
T-Mobile[19]
United Airlines[5]
UPS[5]
Verizon Communications[4]
Vulcan Inc.[8][9]
Walgreens[5]
The Walt Disney Company[5]
ABC, ESPN, LucasFilm, Pixar, Marvel, Walt Disney Studios, Walt Disney Parks and Resorts, The Muppets, more
Wells Fargo[5]
Xerox[2]
Zynga[2]

When has boycotting anything ever brought anyone to repentance? Y'all, 'do you despise the riches of His goodness, forbearance, and long-suffering, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?' (Romans 2:4 NKJV) IT'S HIS GOODNESS THAT LEADS ANYONE TO REPENTANCE!

We've got to learn to be in this world and not of it, but also to love at the same time. Am I okay with homosexuality? No, because I believe it goes against the original plan of God. Do I love homosexuals? YES YES YES YES YES! Why? Because they are my Daddy's creation too! And He wants them. And we're running them off by hating anyone that supports them! You may say 'But I don't hate anyone!' Well, that's not how the world sees it. They only see hate when they see us boycott/ostracize/point a finger at them. It upsets me when I see Christians wanting nothing to do with the lost.

I have read and re-read this blog because I don't want to come across as angry. I am truly pained that we still think pushing anyone away is what brings them to know the love of Christ. If we truly believe that Daddy God loves us all, we must filter all of our actions through love. I am by NO MEANS perfect or have all the right answers, please don't think that I believe I do. Buy your coffee (or whatever) from whoever and look them in the eye and say 'I love you because He first loved me.'

I love you all. Please don't turn this into a big argument. I just believe our tactics of refusing to have dealings with anyone who believes differently than us, isn't working.

And think before you post anything 'anti-gay' on a website whose cofounder is gay.

Offense....Ain't Nobody Got Time For That

I mentioned to my husband the other night that I thought a particular person might be mad at me. I had no real reason to believe this and as I finished what I was saying I almost immediately thought 'Joy, get ahold of yourself. You sound like a bitter 'ol bitty.' So I decided to do my own little study on offense in the bible and see what the Holy Spirit had to say about it all.

"An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city. Arguments separate friends like a gate locked with bars." (Proverbs 18:19 NLT)

-Offense is something we take on ourselves. We....WE put it on. So to put it bluntly: Offense is a selfish action with selfish motives and selfish gain.

“If another believer sins against you, go privately and point out the offense. If the other person listens and confesses it, you have won that person back. But if you are unsuccessful, take one or two others with you and go back again, so that everything you say may be confirmed by two or three witnesses. If the person still refuses to listen, take your case to the church. Then if he or she won’t accept the church’s decision, treat that person as a pagan or a corrupt tax collector."(Matthew 18:15-17 NLT)

-Even in situations that we are justified (by mans standards) to be offended, the protocol states that we try to work things out in a peaceful manner.

"Dear brothers and sisters, if another believer is overcome by some sin, you who are godly should gently and humbly help that person back onto the right path. And be careful not to fall into the same temptation yourself. Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ. If you think you are too important to help someone, you are only fooling yourself. You are not that important." (Galatians 6:1-3 NLT)

-Restoration of an individual is God's priority. Don't be tempted to grab ahold of the bait that is offense. Y'all, people are broken and in dire need of God's restoring LOVE. And, friend, you and I are people. No one person is more important than another. I ask that God help me see that when given the chance to be offended or mad at another one of His children.

"Sensible people control their temper; they earn respect by overlooking wrongs." (Proverbs 19:11 NLT)

-Lu-Huvvah this verse!

I hope this ministers to someone as much as it ministered to me. When we go to the Word to seek answers we will find them if we seek with all our hearts. I pray as I type these words that the Holy Spirit will keep our hearts tender towards Him so that no spirit of offense will ever keep us from hearing His sweet sweet voice.

I'm That One....

...that awkward mom.

The one you never really know how to respond to. The one who blurts out something random and your only response is to slightly grin while you look away in hopes she'll leave you alone. Yup. That's me. I've crossed over.

It's like I hear these words leaving my mouth while simultaneously wanting to slap myself to make me shut up.

I wasn't always this way ya know. Oh no. I was quasi cool. Funny. Some might even venture to say skinny. I had a few things going for me. One being that I could blend if I wanted to, but I could also stand out. In a way that made people laugh with me, not snicker as I walk away.

What's wrong with me? They more than likely didn't even notice that I'm still in my sweatpants because I woke up late and threw everyone in the truck to get my oldest to school on time. They didn't notice, but I brought it to their attention because that's what Awkward Mom does. She tells you why she looks like she bathed in baby food and used cooking oil.

At this point it doesn't really matter. My daughter is only four and doesn't realize how inconceivably gauche her poor mother is.

Don't get me wrong. I love my life. I'm incredibly blessed in a number of areas. It's just that I have very recently had this...er....epiphany of sorts. And I do have an elite few friends who see how blisteringly hilarious I truly am. And I can look decent when given sufficient time to camouflage the effects of birthing three perfect human beings (you're welcome America.) I have a husband who, is either the world's greatest liar, or truly believes he is married to the hottest giant of a woman alive today. So, with that being said...

I would LOVE to be one of those fashionable moms who all the other moms wistfully stare at and daydream of being. (Or maybe I'm the only one who does that.)

But I'm not. Fashionable, that is.

I'm a mousy brown haired, slightly overweight, don't always get to brush my teeth before noon, mother of three.

You wouldn't notice me in a crowd, that is until I make everyone feel weird with my sloppy attempt at witty banter.

The ONLY reason I'm writing this for anyone to see, is that I know I'm not the only one who feels this way. Blended. So in these moments when I want to be noticed for something other than a greasy ponytail, I have to remember: I'm not alone.

What I am, is privileged. Privileged to get to see every growing moment of my children's lives. To have the memories that some moms don't get to make do to uncontrollable circumstances in their lives. I may only be in three of the pictures that get taken in the next twenty years, but we'll all know I was there when we look at them in thirty.

Alright. It's late. I'm gonna go blend into my pillow.

Why Magic Mike Excites Me

Disclaimer: this may or may not tick you off. I am in no way judging anyone so calm down a notch. I have no stones to throw nor the right to do so. I'm just stating what's on my heart.

Okay (deep breath) here goes....

Would I like to go watch very attractive men dance around half naked?

Yep. I'd probably like it a lot.

But in ten years if my daughter brings it home on red box, would I like THAT?

Nope. Not at all.

It's a bit of a double standard how we, as mothers, would freak if we found a playboy under our sons mattress, but parade around FB and our houses chanting 'Girls Night! Magic Mike! Girls Night! Magic Mike!'

Another point is how some of the same women who find it so shameful/disgusting/pig headed for men to go to strip clubs, think its perfectly fine to watch a male strip club via the big screen.

I would feel so belittled if my husband were to flaunt how he was about to have a guys night and go to see the latest movie where skin and boobs abound. Why do we not think this scenario has the same effect on our men?

It's a conviction I'm sharing. Do I think you're a bad person if you go see it? Nope. So once again, calm down. But if you're convicted or at least think about it, I'm glad.

It's when we reach the point of no conviction, that we're in serious trouble.

Peace out, try not to be too mad at me. I really do like you people :)

Jump

2 Timothy 1:7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self discipline.

I hate fear.

I don't remember when it was, but not to long ago I was given a revelation from the Holy Ghost.

I was letting the spirit of fear roll me around like a pill bug when it hit me. Just a thought: you were never afraid of everyday things when you were out gallivanting around. You weren't living in fear when you got into cars with morons and such, or when you made really really really bad decisions. Why now. Why, when you are serving Me, are you suddenly afraid of a trip to the grocery store? It's dumb, really. Think about it.

So now I talk to myself. Out loud. I tell myself how ridiculous it is to live life that way. I think about the legacy I want to leave behind. I don't want it to be a legacy of fear and SELF preservation. I'm helping no one that way, least of all myself and family.

My Pastor believes that the fall of man happened in Gen 3:10 He replied, "I heard you walking in the garden, so I hid. I was afraid because I was naked."

Whether you agree with that or not at least consider this: God was walking in the garden knowing everything that had taken place and could have intervened the moment they both bit the fruit. But He didn't give them any consequence until after they had admitted that they were afraid.

Fear is a wall. A wall that keeps us out. Or in. It keeps us from anything and everything. When we experience fear, it's impossible to experience any other emotion at that moment.

When I was little and would want to jump off of something into my Dad's arms, my trust in him always outweighed my fears. If I was afraid even for a second, all I had to do was remember how big and strong he was, but more importantly, how much he loved me. And I'd jump. He was, and still is, a good daddy. Now I realize not everyone has a good daddy, but they do exist.

Life in Christ hasn't made my life any easier, and fear still tries to creep in daily. But now I have something to hold onto. Some say Christianity is a crutch, I can deal with that. I've tried walking alone, it sucks. Life in Christ means I don't walk alone, ever. If that's a crutch, I will proudly lean on it.

Leap into the bible. What's it gonna hurt? What are we afraid of? I would suggest starting in the New Testament.

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